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Fri, 28 Sep 2012 00:11:54 -0700

When you start ignoring the same person you loved, when you treat your once best friend as a...

Thu, 23 Aug 2012 01:40:00 -0700

When you start ignoring the same person you loved, when you treat your once best friend as a stranger. Yes you hurt them for the moment, but in the end it is yourself that your hurting. Because the same hands that caught you when you fell are no longer there to save you.

i feel it

thelovewhisperer: The Love Whisperer points the way to LOVE

Wed, 22 Aug 2012 14:53:12 -0700

thelovewhisperer:

The Love Whisperer points the way to LOVE

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"‎”So avoid using the word ‘very’ because it’s lazy. A man is not very tired, he is exhausted. Don’t..."

Sun, 29 Jul 2012 02:39:26 -0700

“‎”So avoid using the word ‘very’ because it’s lazy. A man is not very tired, he is exhausted. Don’t use very sad, use morose. Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women - and, in that endeavor, laziness will not do. It also won’t do in your essays.””

- Dead Poets Society, 1989 (via keep-calmer)

Part of the intensity of love is the vulnerability that comes along- knowing that you’re never in...

Thu, 26 Jul 2012 14:51:00 -0700

Part of the intensity of love is the vulnerability that comes along- knowing that you’re never in control because you’re giving all of yourself and it can be taken at any time. It’s life on the edge, in terms of your feelings. People open up their hearts and sometimes, they get burned. They wonder why their lover would lead them on or lie to them. Now there’s not only pain and disappointment, but anger, because they feel they’ve been taken advantage of. It is small consolation to know that virtually everyone goes through that in life, usually more than once. Indeed, the only way to protect yourself from it ever happening to you is to never fall in love in the first place; the problem is that’s an empty life.

Love makes you blind about the truth of the relationship. You don’t want to hear that the one you want doesn’t necessarily want you back in return. If your significant other says it’s over, it more than likely is. It’s time to recognize what is the truth and to move on with your life if you want the pain to move on as well.

Attempting to win that person back is of no purpose. Your efforts have little, if any, chance of succeeding. Even if the object of your affection did relent and come back, the relationship is ultimately doomed, because a stable love only works not because you convinced your partner, but rather because you didn’t have to. Love isn’t an argument; it’s simply a fact.

When we love someone, it’s hard to accept that they don’t love us back. To the outside world, the evidence is overwhelming: we’re being mistreated, he or she is telling others it’s over, or we’re, in fact, being told it’s over. But for whatever reason, we’re just not hearing it. It’s not over until we say it’s over, or at least that’s what we think. But of course, we’re wrong. It can be over long before we want to be, because when it comes to sustaining relationships, it’s never just up to us. We’re always at the mercy of our lover. So while we have the power to end a romance on our own, it takes the willingness and monogamous commitment of two to keep it going. We’ve seen people being hurt, not just because the relationship is over, but additionally, because they refuse to accept it. Relationships rarely have happy endings, therefore there’s little point in dragging out the end.

The problem with love is, though we get to choose who we love, we don’t get to choose who loves us back. The one who seeks to restore the relationship isn’t being loved in return or certainly not with equal passion or commitment. So perhaps the lesson is to not fool yourself, but instead to recognize when your feelings are a one-way street and in a sense, take control of your own life. Love yourself as much as you loved him or her. Be selfish when it comes to your happiness. Only you can decide not to let yourself be hurt by rejection anymore or to understand that there is someone out there for you, who will return the love you crave and deserve. It’s time to move on. You deserve better and you can find it- more importantly by someone whose love is worth having.

reason why i still smile everytime i think of you is because deep down, i believe, that once, and...

Mon, 16 Jul 2012 03:10:51 -0700

reason why i still smile everytime i think of you is because deep down, i believe, that once, and just once in this lifetime, you need to have come across this person that makes you lose yourself, makes you forget it all, makes you crazy, makes you laugh, smile cry and all of the above. makes you want them yet come to a point of not expecting them to feel the same in return, makes you fall in love in them without needing them to do the same too, makes you realize that all you wanted was to have that one chance in this life to have met them.

"I decided that enough is enough. That since you obviously don’t care about me anymore, I am going to..."

Sat, 16 Jun 2012 02:26:15 -0700

“I decided that enough is enough. That since you obviously don’t care about me anymore, I am going to just move on. Easier said then done I suppose, because at the end of the day I’m staring out the window with these tears on my cheeks. Look what you’ve done to me.”

- (via thelovewhisperer)

chuckandblairfashion: “What did I say about letting the chips...

Mon, 21 May 2012 08:33:15 -0700

chuckandblairfashion:

“What did I say about letting the chips fall where they may?”

The Casino scene was the most amazing way to end and bring Chair back to us. First Blair shows up as gorgeous as she never looked in the whole season, showing that Blair Wadorf is back, the confident, powerful, strong BW we used to know. Being sure of what she wants and how to get it. Being more sure than she’s ever been of the choice she made. As Chuck sees her, he doesn’t know what’s going on, what’s happening and how did that even happen. He is so clueless that looks so cute. Then B says “Thanks for the call” to Jack and C gets surprised by that and we fall for Jack again for being a hard Chair shipper. Then B says to C “You fought for me all year, I’ve come to fight for you” and “You said I always bet against you but this time I’m all in” and it’s the most amazing thing she could say to him. No need for the 3 words 8 letters again, she said it all just with that. And finally Chuck’s face. His expression so clueless, surprised, he didn’t say a single word in this scene and he did’t have to, just to see his face, amazed, confused by the fact that Blair, the love of his life, showed up in Paris and said those things to him, is the most sweet thing in the world. He’s never been this surprised before, and he doesn´t know what’s happening, what to do or say, he just stayed there, looking at Blair with the most sweet face he could ever made, and her looking at him, so secure of her choice. She has come to fight for him and this is what we have been waiting for, and may have not been a kiss or words coming from him, but it was worth it, so worth it. Her lines and his face was the best thing they could ever give to us after a year of waiting.

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nv: Son, if you’re 23 I have some words of wisdom for you. I’m almost old...

Fri, 20 Apr 2012 18:20:14 -0700

nv: Son, if you’re 23 I have some words of wisdom for you. I’m almost old...:

uwkire:

Son, if you’re 23 I have some words of wisdom for you. I’m almost old enough to be your dad and my boy and I talk pretty regularly about how the world works so I hope you don’t take offense to my tone, it’s meant to be helpful.

You need very few things at your age to meet a wonderful woman,…

ryander: The Weeknd - Coachella Live on Channel...

Sun, 15 Apr 2012 19:36:54 -0700

ryander:

The Weeknd - Coachella

Live on Channel 3 https://www.youtube.com/user/coachella

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Sun, 15 Apr 2012 18:45:11 -0700

-cityoflove: Torres del Paine, Chile via Ian Plant

Sun, 15 Apr 2012 18:37:28 -0700

-cityoflove:

Torres del Paine, Chile via Ian Plant

apathy

Sun, 15 Apr 2012 18:35:55 -0700

the struggle against apathy is one we must all fight. we must never allow ourselves to be content with complacency, to allow ourselves to settle for “what is”, to fool ourselves into believing that this is the best there really is.

we have to actively remember those moments in our lives that no one can take from us. the moments that define us. because those moments give us the compassion and the empathy that we need to push this world in the right direction.

so please dont let me fall into apathy, into settling, and most importantly, dont ever let me lie to myself.

anyways, spent the day today remembering the happiest moments of my life, and not remembering the reasons that make it sad.

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nofeight: alcohol isn’t the answer, but it makes you forget the...

Thu, 01 Mar 2012 00:44:30 -0800

nofeight:

alcohol isn’t the answer, but it makes you forget the question. boom.

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Mon, 27 Feb 2012 19:26:48 -0800

Music gets inside you, music captures you. Music becomes your...

Fri, 17 Feb 2012 22:29:40 -0800

Music gets inside you, music captures you. Music becomes your heartbeat. It’s a drug and makes you feel whatever the song’s about. - Ed Westwick